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Lashing out?

2/12/2019

Who do I hang out with, that always tend to get on my 'not so good' side, get in my mind, that I get irritated with?

and then why do I turn around and start taking it out on my family?

Why do I take my frustration for this individual out on my loved ones?

Do I feel good about making them feel bad?

How can I get a kick out of making someone angry or hurt - leaving them that way, when
they did nothing to me at all?

When will I recognize that this is unhealthy? and when does the pattern stop?

Who am I?

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Street Racer?

2/11/2019

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Who am I really?

Pulling up to a red light, next to another vehicle.

Have you noticed that when other cars pull up next to you, that if they have newer cars they like to pull off really fast?

If you pull off slow and they pull off fast, it can make them seem like they are going too fast
and they are competing against someone not even in the race!

Do I believe that because I drive a new car, it should be faster than every other car?

Even though there are other cars, made to be faster, and other new cars made all the time.
..and there are some older cars that were designed to be very fast as well.

Do I get upset when other cars take off faster than me?

or get upset when they seem to want to race me?

or do I get competitive because of a look, or a rev of their engine?

If so why?

Who am I?
Really...

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Case Dismissed . . . NOT Guilty due to Gossip

2/5/2019

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What have I been told about someone that, when I met them, I realized it was all a lie?

Not only was it a lie, but I realize that this person is completely NOT like that.

Now I have to make a choice:

Do I work daily to root out the lie, and replace it with the truth?
Do I make myself believe something that is not true?

I was about to give them a piece of my mind, to tell them off for what I thought they were doing that I considered to be wrong... and then it turns out they were totally not doing that.

They are in the right and I am wrong! yikes!

I find no fault with them at all!

Verdict: NOT GUILTY due to Gossip

Case Dismissed.

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Not responsible for the actions of others.

2/4/2019

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How many parents do you know that have raised their children the 'right' way, and yet the child has chosen to make harmful decisions as an adult (or young adult/teenager)?

These parents are feeling shame and embarrassment because of the choices of their children.

These children are adults and responsible for their own decisions.

This is not the parents fault, or responsibility.

****** This goes out to the people who are blaming the parents for their adult children's behavior, telling them that they 'should have done this' or 'should not have done that'. Parenting doesn't come with an instruction manual.

!!! STOP IT, STOP IT, STOP IT !!!

Have you ever made a bad decision? made a mistake? done something wrong? Whose fault was that?
Was it Your Fault? or your parent's fault?
Did your parent's make the choice for you? or did you make the choice for yourself?
So stay out of other people's business and exit the 'blame-game'.

To many parents are worried about what other people say and are carrying a burden that is not theirs to carry. If anyone is to feel embarrassed or ashamed, it would be the child making the unwise choices, not the parents.

The parents did their job, they gave the child the right information and proper upbringing - it is the child that gave into the temptation, and it is the child who is living with the consequences. What that child needs, even as an adult (what we ALL need), is love and support to get life back on the right track.

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Good deeds are ALWAYS noticed

2/3/2019

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Who have I worked for?

Who have I worked for that I did more good deeds for them then they will ever realize?

When someone tried to pry me for information, I gave them nothing.
They brought me donuts, sweets, gifts, and through it all I never revealed private information

? what time do they arrive at work ?
? what car do they drive ?
? what time do they leave at night ?
? what project are they working on ?

The thing that kept me from giving out any information was, these 3 words...
'God is watching'

In God's word I read that it says 'do unto others as I would want them to do unto me'

So for those that work for a boss or company that doesn't appreciate what you do for them, how you sacrifice for them, how you protect them, and how you promote them... I understand what you are going thru.

Been there, Done that.

Remember:
God IS watching. God will reward you. So do the right thing.
He appreciates you when others don't.
When others don't even know they could.

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