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Guilty

3/26/2013

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I notice people don't keep their word to you, after they said they were going to buy something from you or do something for you.

They try to avoid you, why?

you know and they know that they lied.

(you have a choice: you can look at them and say 'shame shame' or you can tell them you don't have to avoid me, I just know the next time not to ask you or you can let it go and pretend it did not happen)

when you pretend it did not happen, every time they look at you they will remember what they said to you.

Their guilt is eating them up.

Will you let it go?

It is not easy to do but it is possible.

I have done it - you can too.

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Rotten Attitudes

3/22/2013

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I also notice that some people that have a bad attitude or a smart mouth, are not used to people doing or saying anything nice about them.

I try this when someone's attitude stinks, I mean really stinks.  I buy them something saying, 'I thought about you when I was in the store'.

Dollar Tree works wonders, or I say 'I love you' or 'Don't you just love them?' or if you cooked something - offer them some. 

this way you have not lost anything.

Then watch later how their spirit changes.

it works.

give it a shot and watch 'problem' people turn into loyal friends!!
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I Noticed . . .

3/21/2013

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I Noticed.

When I have people that get on my nerves, complaining all the time.

About any and everything - including the weather, that they have No control over.

The way I figured out how to stop all that:

Interupt them while they are talking, find one thing to compliment them on.

Example:  Sorry for interrupting, but that is a Gorgeous _________!  where did you get that from?

They like that you paid attention to them and noticed something good about them, and by time they look at it,

Say something else and start the conversation in a totally different direction.

I noticed in my experience that this interrupts them from 'dumping' their load of negativity on me, stops them
from complaining, and they go on about their day - in a better mood.

Call it a Public Service.  I did a good deed for them. AND for Me!
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We Want What We Want

3/6/2013

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When it comes Right Down to the Very Core, the Foundation, the Source of why you are Getting the Results / Experiences in Life:

-- You Find Quietly, that It's Because, That is What You Want. --

We Live Out Our Choices - Every Day.

You Can Still Want Something Even If You Don't Like It.

It is TOO Easy to Become Comfortable with 'Average', the 'Norm', Fitting In, Society and Peer Pressure, Sin.  Even when we don't like the Results - We find the COST of Changing to be TOO Much, Too Painful -  So we Stay the Same -- Easier that way.

We Choose to Continue getting the Same Results BECAUSE that's What We WANT.

WE WANT EASY.  WE WANT PAINLESS.
WE WANT FITTING IN.  WE WANT THE STATUS QUO.

Change Requires Sacrifice, Hard Work, Being Different, Learning, Adapting, Adjusting, New Friends, New Acquaintances, New Business Partners/Opportunities, Letting Go, New Habits, New Thinking, OVERCOMING, etc....

As The King James Bible tells us; 'Capturing EVERY Thought Unto Christ' and 'Be Not Conformed to THIS World, but Be Ye TRANSFORMED by the ReNEWing of Your Mind in Christ Jesus'!!

This is a DAILY, HOURLY, MINUTELY, SECONDLY Endeavour.  IT'S a LIFESTYLE.

It's NOT FAKE or Put-on.

CHANGE Paths from the INSIDE in order to SUCCEED.

If you don't:

if you try to live in Both Worlds
trying to live in the Past and in Your Future
trying to live in Doubt and in Belief
trying to live in the Comfort Zone of Habit and Tradition and the Daily Grind while at the same time trying to live in the NEW FREE LIFE you have the Audacity to EnVision for Yourself

-- You Will be Constantly Torn Apart and Pulled by the Struggle between 2 VASTLY Different Existences.

Pick 1.  Make the Decision.  Choose.

Then Take Action.  And DON'T GO BACK.

May Jesus Bless You with a Deeper Relationship with His Father, the Almighty GOD
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