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Worst Possible Time!!

2/16/2019

Who am I really?

I have had phlegm in my throat/sinuses all morning, but it won't come out.

Then I am at a business meeting or around people who I want to impress, and that's when it comes up!

What do I do?

Do I excuse myself at the worst possible time to go spit it up?
Do I lean over and spit it into my coat pocket?!
Do I cough and hack and spit it into my napkin?
Do I swallow it back down?

How do I handle it?
What do I do?

Who am I really?

With Love Sugar
Miss J

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Is it fair?

2/15/2019

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Is it fair to be in a household where everybody criticizes one another?

Is it fair to be in a household where everyone else has to approve of your choices? your job, your relationships, your life!!!

Is it fair to be in a household where everybody tries to make everyone else look bad and make fun of them?

Is it fair to be in a household where it's ok for one person to be happy and everybody else has to fall in line with their approval?

Where did this start?
How did it begin?

Was it something the parents allowed to take place?
Was it something a sibling started doing and the parents never corrected it?
Was it the parents themselves?

Since it has been allowed to go on for so long, it has grown out of control and is damaging the members of the family.

Causing secret bitterness, resentment, and family members trying to live life in secret - so the rest of family doesn't find out!

All this Insecurity and Judgment is destroying the Love.

Is this ok?

When will it stop?

Especially if no one says anything about it?

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Miss J

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Eewww! What's that smell?! Oh, it's your attitude!!

2/14/2019

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Who have I worked with that had an attitude that just stinks?
They get mad at everyone else for what they do, for what they bring to the table!

They don't understand why some don't like them.
They don't understand why they eat lunch alone.

When they can't find anyone to socialize with, they come looking for me.

They steady blaming everyone else instead of turning around looking backwards!

I tolerate them because I feel sorry for them.

Someday I hope I get up the nerve to tell them the truth without breaking their heart.
I spend so much time and energy trying to get them to feel better, 'can you look at it from a different way?'

They feel that I am their only friend, the only one they can talk too.

I want to tell them that it's not the other people, it's the way they look at life and their bad attitude.

I am worried about saying something because they are so fragile and on the edge... I would hate for
them to kill themselves because of something I said being the last straw and they just couldn't take correction.

The bible says for everything there is a time and a season. I hope this season for their deliverance (and mine)
comes soon!!

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Miss J

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'You are a curse' - Hold On, Cancel That - "I am a Blessing" - that's better.

2/13/2019

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Who was it when I was younger that told me constantly, constantly, constantly:

that I am the reason that they are fat?
that I am the reason that things are not working out for them?
that it was me that brought this curse into their life?
that it was me that caused them to not get the job they wanted?
that it was me that caused them to live where they were living?

Now that I am older, I have to make a decision... it's called life.

Do I agree with what they said, and allow that information to damage the rest of my life?

or...

Do I let go of their hurtful words, rejecting those thoughts as lies, and realize that what
they said only gives me cause to be a better person?!

In other words, we all have to make choices in life.

Too many people go thru life, living with regret and frustrations, because of what was said
to them when they were younger.

Living under the cloud of such a negative expectation that they experience feelings, make choices and do things that cause themselves problems.

Think about it.

How could you possibly be responsible for their actions?
Especially when the choices they made were before you were born?

you are not responsible for who they slept with.
you are not responsible for them putting food in their mouth and not exercising.
you are not responsible for the choices they have made to create their lifestyle. where they live and work.

Is what they said even reasonable? NOPE.
as the old people in my town used to say: "jus' foolish talk!"

If this has happened to you, then use these simple questions to put what was said into perspective and get victory over their damaging words.

Use their words to be your Excellence Fuel!!

Now GO have a GREAT and SUCCESSFUL LIFE!!

*you have my permission* lol

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Miss J

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Lashing out?

2/12/2019

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Who do I hang out with, that always tend to get on my 'not so good' side, get in my mind, that I get irritated with?

and then why do I turn around and start taking it out on my family?

Why do I take my frustration for this individual out on my loved ones?

Do I feel good about making them feel bad?

How can I get a kick out of making someone angry or hurt - leaving them that way, when
they did nothing to me at all?

When will I recognize that this is unhealthy? and when does the pattern stop?

Who am I?

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