Guilty Giving

Have you ever had someone volunteer to do something for you, and then they think that you should repay them...

Over and Over and Over, again?

This is something that I had to put in check. 

I didn't ask them, therefore, I don't owe them.

Certainly not over and over and over again.

Remember, if you were just talking about something that you were going to do, or wanted to do, and they just up and volunteered... You don't owe them anything, and you have no reason to feel guilty.

Some people have a heart that like to give, it is in them to Bless others.
Some people have a heart to steal, they just Take from others.
Some people want to give, and then tell everybody what they have done for you.
And Some just take advantage of people who easily feel guilty, and they Manipulate them.

I had to have this talk with myself, in order to cut loose from those that were always trying to give BUT with conditions.  Trying to guilt or obligate others into doing things for them... constantly.

Now I hang out with people who are like Jesus, they have a heart to GIVE, because it feels good.  They Give and move on without looking back, instead looking forward for other opportunities to GIVE to others.

Just like me.

And Just like you.  Right?!

~ Miss J

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