The inner voice is often saying things like 'what about me?', 'what about me?', 'am I not good enough to be loved?', 'am I not good enough to be appreciated?', 'is anyone going to love or appreciate me?', 'what happened to the parents checking on me to make sure I made it home safe?', or 'will they ever ask me how my day went and care about the response?'
I used to constantly hear this voice as I looked in my parents eyes. I did not ask to come into the world, so stop blaming me for something that I have no control over, please.
I have been blaming them, carrying that baggage with me into every situation and relationship. The damage done will be eternal, if I don't learn to let it go.
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