This really made them confused about how they were supposed to be, so they did what was done to them, in secret, on an innocent child. They justified it as they listened to that voice tell them 'it was done to you, so do it to them'.
Wrong, wrong, wrong.
Tell that voice to shut up.
What was done to you was wrong, and it is time to stop that voice, and silence the pattern for good. Don't repeat that pattern, don't ruin a innocent child's life.
Think about how you feel daily, then think about how this child's life is going to be ruined because of your actions.
Do you want to live with this for the rest of your life?
Here's to Healthy Good New Patterns!
~ Miss J