There is a pattern where a girl or boy feel they need attention, feel like they are lacking someone to care for them or love them, so they use their body as an object to get what they want.
If you wanted sex, they have no problem supplying your desire, as long as they thought you liked them or made them feel good about themselves for a few moments.
Knowing that thrill, not of sex, but of having someone like them even if it is only for a short time, they settle for it. Making the mistake of thinking that sex is the same thing as love or friendship. Thinking that people liked them, or loved them, when in reality the other person was only using them because they were 'easy'.
The pattern they have learned says "is there anyone out there that will love or like me for me?" The pattern keeps them living a lie, suffering in loneliness.
If you do care for someone like this, tell them 'you start believing in yourself, start by liking you first'. Or give them a hug and even saying I Love you.
~ Miss J